"Back From Outer Space - How to Drop Back Into Your Ex's Life and Win Her Over in 17 Days"," Although it is important to allow some time to pass before you contact your ex after a break-up, waiting too long can send a clear signal that you're no longer interested.
First of all, it is important to cut all contact with her for at least two weeks after the break-up.
At the same time, she will have ample time to consider whether the break-up was a good idea - and as you continue to stay out of touch, she will not only respect you for not acting desperate, but actually start to see what she is missing now that you are no longer in her life.
If the simple thought of seeing her again sends shivers down your spine, take some extra time off before you get in touch with her again.
There are many ways to reconnect with your ex after a period of silence, but a simple phone call is always the preferred method.
If she doesn't answer, try again a few days later, but never call her more than once a day, since it will make you look desperate.