"How To Choose The Right Gift"

"How To Choose The Right Gift"," If the gifting is occurring within the family and you really can't afford to spend the amount everyone is expecting, tell them that. In fact, some other family members might agree that they are in the same situation but didn't want to disappoint anyone. Remind everyone that the gift is in the heart of the giver, not the pocketbook. Clues as to appropriate gifts can be found in what they may have mentioned that they want or need, what they wear, the items they use, collections they have, the music they prefer, the food and beverages they enjoy and the type of work they perform. If you give the same gift to the local postman who has to slog through snow, sleet and hail to deliver the mail, your gift will be entered into the hall of fame of their favorite gifts. Thinking about what gift would be right for someone is part of the gift. The recipient will remark about what a thoughtful gift you have given and wonder how you knew to give them such a perfect gift. Speaking of effort: it is not necessary to purchase things to give to people if one cannot afford it. A book of coupons that can be redeemed throughout the year is usually a hit with moms and wives; sometimes that ""romantic dinner out at the restaurant of your choice"" comes at the best time for the husband as well. Of course, one must honor the coupons when presented or the gift isn't really a gift. HERE IT IS ALL IN ONE NUT SHELL